Monthly Archives: November 2013

“Confessions of a Bisexual Husband” is now available!

Mark Bentley Cohen - "Confessions of a Bisexual Husband"

Confessions of a Bisexual Husband is a candid, riveting, erotic account of how a married bisexual man’s coming out to his wife saves their ailing marriage. The book redefines our most dearly-held beliefs about sexuality, monogamy, authenticity, and what it means to truly love someone. The book is available for purchase as an eBook here: AMAZON  and  SMASHWORDS (for non-Kindle versions) Printed copies of the book are available from the author. Please contact Mark if you’d like one sent  to you. If you’re in Vancouver, the book is available at these fine indepent booksellers: Y’s books – I will be…

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Biphobia: Doubting the “B” in “LGBT”


After performing my one-man show, “Bi, Hung, Fit… and Married”, at the Queer Arts Festival in Vancouver during the summer of 2013, my wife and I held Q&A sessions to discuss non-monogamy, bisexuality, and our open relationship. I delve into my life-long struggle with my sexual orientation during the show, where I come to accept the fact that I am indeed bisexual. During one Q&A after the show, an older gay male posed the question: “So you believe that bisexuality is real and it exists?” This, after having spent an hour depicting the steps which led me to openly identifying…

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Should I tell my wife I’m bisexual?

How do I tell my wife I'm bisexual?

I get many email from men asking me, “Should I tell my wife I’m bisexual?”, or “How do I tell my wife I’m bisexual?” I also get email from men who have told their wives they are bisexual (see this post). I will address the topic of coming out to your wife as a bisexual man in this post. It’s been nearly five years since I drove my wife up to the top of a local mountain, parked on the side of the deserted road, and told her I am bisexual and that I’d been “experimenting” with men behind her…

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The Time is NOW