Finnish film, “Steam of Life”: simple, powerful, revealing, refreshing

I went to see the Finnish documentary last night, “Steam of Life”. http://www.nordiskfilmogtvfond.com/index.php?ptid=3&sid=92 It was very moving. Men sharing their deepest emotional experiences with other men, or sometimes just the camera, in a sauna. The film is beautifully shot, highlighting the stark Finnish landscape – and apparently the Finnish obsession with saunas. There was an…

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James Bond is Bisexual!

It was with a loud holler that I welcomed the news that James Bond is bisexual – or at least man enough to allude to the possibility. During the “torture” scene with Raoul Silva, Bond is subjected to Silva’s sensual touch. “There’s always a first time.” says Silva, as he asserts that there was nothing…

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I’ve been asked to mention the pitfalls of opening up a relationship

I recently had a conversation with a woman who had attended my workshop on open relationships. She said she was bursting during the workshop, wanting to interrupt me while I sang the virtues of opening up. She wanted to let everyone know how difficult it is and how many couples simply fall apart during the…

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Open Relationships Acknowledge Our Multidimensionality

We used to believe that once a person became an adult and got married (something all people wanted to do), that was it. The process of “becoming” had ended, and now the rest of one’s life was about simply continuing on as a completed self. Women became mothers and wives; men became fathers and husbands.…

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Another bisexual man comes out to his wife….

This is a recent email exchange with a bisexual man with questions about coming out to his wife. Mark, I just was looking on Reddit and someone had posted your website as a source of information. I will have to say it is good to see someone being very helpful to individuals who may have…

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“Bi, Hung, Fit… and Married” receives Rave Reviews!

I’d like to thank everyone who came out to see “Bi, Hung, Fit… and Married”. The play opened to rave reviews at Vancouver Weekly, Plank Magazine, and on our Facebook page. Please go to www.bihungfit.com for more information and updates. We’re now considering next steps for the show. The book is still looking for a…

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