I am an agent of change and transformation. I like to colour outside the lines, and encourage others to do the same.
Ultimately life is an exploration of the self. And yes, this includes the sexual self. I have spent my life exploring both the internal realms, as well as the external, and continue to do so. I daresay there is nary a rock left unturned within.
I’ve travelled the globe for over twelve years of my life, including two one-year+ trips around the world, where I headed west, and continued to do so until I returned home to Canada.
I left my highly successful, and very adventurous marriage in 2016, after 23 years, the last seven of which were spent exploring an open relationship.
Through my role as a professional counsellor/therapist, workshop facilitator, self-help group facilitator, I’ve had the privilege of working through all manner of sexual expression and relationship issues with thousands of people around the world.
And as a playful participant in events, I was afforded the unique opportunity of watching other couples and groups have sex, up-close and in-person.
The experiences and relationships I’ve had after leaving my marriage and re-entering the wonderful world of dating have been invaluable to me personally and professionally.
All of these have contributed to the series immeasurably, as well as to my own life. I’d like to thank everyone who shows up!
Full Disclosure: I still remind myself of my own words within my new series – often, because I still need reminding of the kernels of wisdom within, especially when with a new partner, when everything moves with hyper-rapidity.
I too need constant reminding to “slow the fuck down”, in all aspects of life, really, but definitely during sex and intercourse.
I am pleased to say that my ability to control my sexual energy has been perfected to a high degree. Again, I rely upon the everything described within the series.
The practises proscribed in these books will serve you throughout your life. Of that, I can attest.
Whether client, lover, or friend, my aim and outlook is always the same: to encourage everyone’s authentic self-expression as clearly, loudly, joyously, raucously and freely as possible.
Exploration of the sexual self is as important and vital an exploration as any other aspect: professional, spiritual, creative, intellectual. Unless and until you are comfortable with your sexual self, you cannot be comfortable with the rest of you.
I urge you to explore your sexuality with abandon, allowing yourself great freedom.
The gift along the way is the gift of yourself, of your authentic self-expression: Who You Really Are. And once you are in alignment with that, the rest flows out of you, like lava from Vesuvius!
Brief Resume
I’m a multi-faceted communications professional with over 30 years of diverse writing experience.
On 15 July, 2021 I released the first two books of my new series, The Proper Way to Fuck a Woman.
"Confessions of a Bisexual Husband" was published on Amazon in November, 2013. It continues to sell well, and receive many accolades.
After completing my BA in Creative Writing/Journalism at Concordia University, in Montreal, I worked on both sides of the mic at CBC Radio, as well as freelanced for a variety of well-known publications, such as the Montreal Gazette and the Vancouver Courier.
I have written two feature-length screenplays, "When I Find You" and "Webs of Hidden Desire", both of which received Telefilm Canada and BC Film funding. Both of these films explore themes of sexuality and sexual identity confusion, my favourite topics! "Webs of Hidden Desire" is currently in search of financing.
Whether I am working in the role of writer, workshop facilitator, life coach, web producer, or teacher, my focus has always been on conveying information to people in ways they will be able to enjoy, absorb, and understand.
Freelance Writing
I’ve had articles and photographs published across the continent in a variety of publications, including the Montreal Gazette, the Vancouver Courier, the Vancouver Board of Trade, Moviemaker Magazine, the Royal Bank, the NFB, Reader’s Digest, and others.
Anchored Commotion Productions Inc.
My wife and I owned ACPI, a company which specialized in Vancouver independent film productions. We co-wrote, produced, and edited the short film “Always Watching”, which was featured at the Vancouver International Film Festival in 1999.
Feature-length Screenplays
I was able to work through the bureaucracy to attain highly competitive Telefilm Canada and BC Film grant money to write and develop two of my own feature-length screenplays: “When I Find You”, and “Webs of Hidden Desire”.
CBC Associate Producer
Getting a daily afternoon radio show on air requires dedication and long hours. As part of the “Homerun” team, I was responsible for generating story ideas, interviewing guests, researching and writing scripts and backgrounds, and ensuring the live show ran smoothly.
National CBC Computer Columnist
Each week my views on information technology and the changing face of our information-based society were aired nationally on CBC Radio. The objective of the column was to introduce and explain complex computer information to the general public.
CBC Reporter
The Eastern Township correspondent for Daybreak, the CBC Radio morning show in Montreal. Spoke live on air to discuss issues from the Townships. Skills included making the pitch, interviewing, researching, writing, and editing the on-air material.
Education
Computer Information Systems Langara College
Vancouver, British Columbia
1997- 1999
Diploma in Education
McGill University
Montreal, Quebec
1990-1991
BA in Creative Writing/Journalism
Concordia University
Montreal, Quebec
1985-1988
Social Sciences Degree
Dawson College
Montreal, Quebec
1981-1983
